Part 1 of this series explained the basic elements and players of The Game. The following helps answer a few common questions that we hear about it.
- Why Don’t the Victims Just Leave the Game?
- Isn’t this a harmless crime?
Why They Don’t Leave
About 89 percent of people in prostitution wanted to escape that life and stayed anyway because of the following reasons:
- Pimp tells her she is committing a crime and police are her enemy
- Pimp creates fear in her that he will hurt her or her family
- Pimp controls her kid(s)
- Blackmail (threatens to release videos of her being raped)
- Addicted to drugs
- She is in love with the pimp (trauma bond – abuse cycle)
- Shame and isolated from family and social networks
- Truly believe they are making a lot of money (pimp is “holding it”)
- The only area of their lives that they feel they are valuable
- Nowhere to go that is safe
The tools of guilt, shame, fear and violence are applied relentlessly by the Traffickers upon the Victims to keep them in The Game.
The Impacts of The Game
The legal system is learning that the long-held view of prostitution being a victimless crime is false. There are no winners in this game. All of the players are broken and need true healing that only Jesus Christ can bring. The harsh facts about what is really happening includes the following.
- Average age of entry is between 13 to 15 years old
- Life expectancy in The Game is 7 years
- Violence is a constant threat (from pimps and from buyers)
- Sexually transmitted diseases are rampant — can affect innocent wives, girlfriends
- $99 billion globally from sex trafficking
- Human trafficking is the second largest international crime industry
- 1.2 – 1.8 Million children are sex trafficked each year in 161 countries around the globe
- 100,000 – 300,000 children are sex trafficked each year in the United States
In Part 3 of this series, we talk about what the role of pornography is in The Game.
Sex Trafficking happens when someone uses force, fraud or coercion to cause a commercial sex act, which includes prostitution, pornography and sexual performance done in exchange for something of value.
“After drug dealing, human trafficking is tied with the illegal arms industry as the 2nd largest criminal industry in the world today, and it is the fastest growing” —National Human Trafficking Resource Center
Sexual exploitation can happen online, in strip clubs, on the streets and in massage parlors in exchange for money, drugs, shelter, food or clothes.
Within the subculture of sex trafficking, pimping is referred to as “the game” or “the life”. Women and girls talk about being “in the life” if they have been involved with prostitution for a while. The Game comes with a set of rules, hierarchy of authority, and its own language.
- The Trafficker = “Pimp”
- The Victim = “Prostitute”
- The Buyer = “John”
The Pimps / Traffickers
- Prides themselves in controlling others through manipulation
- Sets the quota for how much the victim must earn before returning home
- Most are 17 to 25 years old
- Family history of prostitution
- High self-esteem
- History of violence towards women
- View women as property or objects to used or sold
- Most are 13 to 17 years old
- History of abuse — about 99% have been sexually abused
- Broken families
- Low self-esteem
- Failing in school or feeling rejected
- Looking for attention or love
- Male — 98%
- 2 out of 3 are married
- 2 out of 3 have kids
- All levels of economic worth
- All levels of jobs, social status, and background
Stages of The Game
In the United States, traffickers recruit girls to participate in The Game, with the ultimate goal of forcing them to do whatever they want.
Stage 1: Recruiting
This happens wherever the young girls like to hang out. Shopping malls, transportation hubs, schools and the internet. Runaways are particularly vulnerable — 1 out of 3 will be lured into The Game within 48 hours.
Stage 2: Grooming
- Traffickers acts as boyfriend
- He builds up self-esteem
- He praises them with flattery & charm
- He buys them gifts (clothes, food, nails)
- He shows a lot of attention
- He plays up the promise of the “good life”
- She has no responsibilities
- He provides drugs
- He preys on the emotional weakness of the victim
Stage 3: Break
- Isolates her from family, friends and all support groups
- Makes her totally dependent on him
- Once she is completely isolated and dependent on him, the trafficker coerces her into her first trick
Stage 4: Control
The pimp lays down the rules from here out:
- How long and when to work
- What to charge and sets a quota per night
- Set maximum time limits for each act
- She cannot talk to or even look at another pimp or she will be beaten
- Often they are branded — tattoos in prominent places to remind her that she is his property
- Pimps keep 100% of the money
In Part 2 of this series, we will explain Why the Victims Don’t Leave The Game, and terrible impact it has on all that are involved.
Anti-Trafficking action opportunity
Law enforcement and survivor support groups are in constant need of donated smart phones and gift cards ($5-25) to give to trafficking survivors. The survivors phones are taken as evidence and they have food and clothing needs.
For all of October & November, Village’s Anti-Trafficking team will be collecting these items at the Information Counter in the Sanctuary Lobby before and after all worship services. Consider donating your used smart phone instead of trading it in when you upgrade (smart phones only; please reset your phone to factory settings before donating). Questions? Contact Insil Kang